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Dances with Mantas

Imagine hovering along a mound of coral and rocks. It’s murky — there is a wall of green-blue water behind the variety of fish you see going about their business. Some check you out, most have more important things to do. It’s just you, your small group of dive friends (on the boat better known as Team A), your dive guide and the marine life that thrives there. You’ve given up hope on seeing a manta (this dive), so you inhale, exhale, hover, check out the little things who are just as beautiful. All of a sudden you sense something behind you. A large manta ray glides in from the distance, swoops down within inches of you, so that it can look you in the eye — deciding whether or not he (or she) wants to spend more time with you. The manta is so close, in fact, you turn onto your back, so that you’re both belly to belly, swaying in each other’s wake.
In that moment you’ve forgotten all about your age, weight, gender, socio-economic status (all the stuff that seems to matter on land). You feel so beautifully alive, and you cry at the wonder of sharing the same space and time with this majestic being, who then moves on to do the same with each of your friends, until he flies back into the dark. A few minutes later he returns with his friends.
That is what it’s like to dance with mantas.
Turns out those mantas weren’t the only ones wanting to waltz water with us. LOL this guy made sure each and everyone of us got some face time with him. He kept looking at me; I swear saying “What am I? Chopped Liver?”

It’s been a week since my liveaboard dive trip ended, and I’m still glowing from its magic. Most of my favorite dive buddies (sadly a few couldn’t join us) and I got to spend Thanksgiving week aboard the Carpe Novo, cruising around several Maldivian Atolls and diving into their waters.
We had such an amazing time with each other, our new dive friends we met on the boat, and, of course, the many, many personalities we met underwater.
Our very first dive included a spotted eagle ray swimming above us — I like to think she was blessing us with “come play with us” vibes. We saw so many sharks, anemone (and their adorable buddies), and schools of fish (including the largest school of barracuda I’ve ever seen). We also got to mingle with a variety of nudibranchs, eels, shrimp, crabs and octopuses.

Again, I don’t take pics under water, so all of these pics are from Dive Diva (Ina Francisco), Bennie, Susan or Shane Blaz. I’ll update with more pics when my other buddies share their goodies.
During some of our surface intervals we got to snorkel with mantas AND a whale shark. Sadly, the whale shark was only under us for a few seconds before diving into the deep. I don’t blame him — lol who wants a bunch of pesky humans frantically swimming this way and that just to watch you eat.
One of my favorite dives (the dance with mantas was number 1) was also my 301st dive. Our guide surprised me with a sign I will have framed. I had originally planned on skipping the prior dive because I’m being careful and it was a deep dive, but the currents weren’t strong, so I decided to do it and hover a little higher than everyone (and, of course, I absolutely loved it). Anyway, back to the 301st. We dove with the largest, most playful nurse sharks I have ever met. As we were descending they swam between our legs (lol one smacked Susan in the rear with its tail) and alongside us, practically guiding us to their den. Once we got to their favorite place, they lounged on the sand while we took pics (lol I’m the one wearing orange and Betty, I never corrected our guide. I’m pretty sure Rio isn’t his real name, and that I didn’t say it correctly)
Team A lounging with our pups.
The pack of sharks (pic only shows two of them) laid docile until we ascended for our safety stop. They followed us up, swimming around us as if begging for a treat. I was so tempted to rub their bellies, but we adhere to the no-touch rule.
Above water we humans also had fun bonding and getting to know our Maldivian and Sri Lankan crew and the other divers from the States, Canada, China, Tenerife, Austria, Germany and Poland. One of the best things about diving is the people you get to meet. In real life we bore others with our stories about what we see underwater. Sea slugs and pipe fish just aren’t all that exciting until you’ve had to go 60 plus feet under to squint your eyes to see them. Plus, we literally trust each other with our lives under water and we share the post-dive shiver of shame — we might look good in the snaps we share lol but trust me coming out of the water we’ve all struggled with knotted hair (well the short hair or bald folk don’t), um our own nasal slime, and getting our carcass loaded with gear back on the boat, and then there’s the de-robing of our wetsuits and/or skins on a boat that’s rarely sitting still.
A trip like this doesn’t come without its hiccups. Much of the week we were in the outer bands of a nasty storm that caused death and destruction in Malaysia and Sri Lanka. One night the boat rocked and creaked so much, we all wondered if we should sleep with our life jackets on. I would not make a good fisherman on one of those arctic fishing boats. I regretted not bringing my wetsuit because I was chilly some of the time. We had a few days where nothing dried, so we divas had to endure putting on wet bathing suits and skins lol so we could jump into the water. I type this knowing full and well how spoiled I sound. Our flight home was a nightmare. Long story short we spent an extra night in Male in a hotel we would not have chosen, eating a meal of what we’re not really sure (they said it was chicken), and dealt with the frenzy that comes with airport madness when your flights don’t go as planned. This was definitely a shock for us because life on the boat included amazing meals, spacious rooms and a crew that took care of everything for us. Turns out I really like yacht living.
That said we were never miserable. Exhausted and occasionally snippety (I had a moment maybe two, but lol they didn’t last long), yes. Unhappy, no. We made the best out of our worst and best situations. Would I spend a week on a boat in the middle of nowhere with this group of friends again? Or, take a three-day journey home with them? You bet! As they’ve all heard me say sooo many times, “I love my life!” And, they’re part of the reason why. I’m a lucky girl.
Next up, another reason why I love my life so much: my family. I get to see them in just a few weeks, and I cannot wait!
Happy Holidays Everyone. Love, hugs and bubbles from my corner of the world to yours.

Palau
Sedona’s sandstone cliffs peak through the juniper and alligator pines that surround the rustic cottage I’ve been attempting to sleep at the past two nights. I’m in Arizona visiting family and getting all of my old-lady check ups (medical stuff is expensive and just plain difficult in Guam).
For whatever reason, insomnia has been a constant since I got here a little less than two weeks ago. If I’m not popping Benadryl, I’m not sleeping no matter how tired I am. Argh. I do all the counting and breathing tricks to no avail, but it’s all good because it usually, eventually, brings me back to the waters of Palau. So, I give up on sleep and embrace the current of underwater memories —- until something else rudely interrupts the flow and reminds me that I need to get some effing sleep.
There is rarely a week that goes by on Guam where diving isn’t part of my routine. What I see underwater and the bond I share with the friends I do this with brings me so much awe, peace and connection. I do not take it for granted, and I thank the powers that be for the wonder of this life.
Palau is diving on a whole other level. I was not prepared for the magnitude of its magic —- despite so many telling me it was special and amazing.
For starters the people of Palau protect its wildlife. Eighty percent of its water is a no-take zone, banning commercial fishing; leaving the rest for local fishing and sustenance. It also established the first national shark sanctuary providing a country-sized patch of water off limits to anyone wanting to harm these terrifying (above water), magnificent (underwater) creatures. While tourism (I imagine mostly from scuba divers) is vital to its economy, Palau puts conservation and local interests first.
It’s an archipelago of more than 500 islands, including the Rock Islands, in the Western Pacific. Thanks to its location and conservation efforts, the underwater world is full of life and color. It’s not without its horrors —- colonial expansion and war have left their marks, but nature manages to rebuild around its scars when given the chance. This comforts me, especially since we too are nature.

Picture taken from https://dynamic-media-cdn.tripadvisor.com/media/photo-o/0a/d5/47/5a/palau-caroline-islands.jpg?w=700&h=-1&s=1
I spent the week there on the Aggressor 2 live aboard, a yacht designed for dive vacations (and it was fabulous —- the crew spoiled us). There are a few other charters that are allowed to also bring tourists, and there are day-trip boats that bring divers and snorkelers, but it’s not as many as I’ve seen in other diving areas I’ve been to. Most of the time it felt like we were the only humans underwater — not to say that our presence isn’t an interruption, but the fish seemed to be as intrigued by us as we them.
We had the opportunity to do four dives a day with three 45-minute night dives. I did all but one night dive (my sinuses begged me for a break). There were wrecks (two ship and one plane), caves, walls, channels and holy-hell-hold-on-to-your-hook corner dives. Some of the top diving spots in the world are also Palau’s most famous dive sites: German Channel, Ulong Channel, Blue Corner, Chandelier Cave and Pelilui (we didn’t get to do this because of bad weather). All the other places we dove were calm, easy dives and just as full of life and wonder where I got to see (to name just a few) lots of turtles, colorful fish, crocodile fish, huge lobsters, a leopard shark, and bump head parrot fish spawning (um, the water was quite cloudy; whew! I didn’t get pregnant).

Hundreds of Bump Head Parrot fish gather during the new moon. A female will shoot up, release her eggs, the males chase after her, releasing their goodies. It’s a volcanic eruption of fishily fluids. Images taken from https://unique-ocean-expeditions.com/palau-new-moon-expeditions
Blue Corner
I was really nervous to do this dive because it’s famous for its strong current. You hook onto reef and fly like a kite watching all the big things (several varieties of sharks, Napoleon Wrasse, Wahoo, Barracuda, you name it) float by you. You look at them; they look at you. It feels like you’re The Wizard of Oz’s Dorothy in the tornado, and the water is rushing by you so fast it sounds like wind. When it’s time to unhook, you Peter Pan fly over the reef, sometimes into schools of fish (we just happened to get thrown into a large school of barracuda where they simply shimmied over a bit to give you space). Nothing reminds you more of your mortality than flying eyeball to eyeball with large fish that could eat you. And, it was freaking amazing.
German Channel
This was the dive I was looking most forward to because it’s famous for its Manta Ray cleaning station. You sit on your knees in the sand and patiently wait for the manta to arrive, so the cleaner fish can get to work. We did this three times and not once did a Manta fly above us. We did, however, get to watch sharks go vertical (signaling they’re ready for their bath) and other large fish come get a quick cleaning. The first time we did this, I picked a bad spot because some ticked off cleaner fish kept bopping me in both ears —- at first I thought someone was throwing pebbles at me. According to the diver behind me, one had a great time messing with my pony tail. On another dive a Remora tried to attach itself to my leg while I was waiting my turn to get back on the boat, so apparently I’m a barnacle bitch in desperate need of cleaning.
While we didn’t get to see mantas where we expected to see them, I did have a huge one swim right under me during our safety stop. I thought I was hallucinating. I tried to swim after it, like the younger divers were doing, but the current was too strong. It’s all good because when our little dive boat brought us back to the yacht, two mantas (one big, one small) and two lemon sharks (they’re quite large) were circling the ship. The mantas were snacking while the sharks just circled (perhaps the chef threw them scraps every now and then). I learned on this trip that mantas are actually part of the shark family — who knew?

Ulong Channel
Oh my goodness, this area is loaded with all kinds of coral (soft and rugged). There were rows and rows of lettuce coral; it looked like Poseidon’s vegetable garden. Along the walls of all of our dives were fragile red and purple fan coral. Much of our corral in Guam is dead or dying, so this was such a treat. It must be where Disney got its vision of Ariel and Nemo’s world. Again, Palau protects its marine life, so this garden was also loaded with Goliath Grouper —- including many feisty males bumping heads, trying to impress the ladies because their spawning period was right around the corner. lol there were so many massive fish, one of the guides rubbed his belly reminding us of just how yummy these amorous bullies are when dressed in butter and lemon.


All of above taken from Internet. Forgive me, I lost track of urls.
Chandelier Cave
Because I’m not trained or certified, I don’t do cave diving, but we are allowed to enter cave-like areas that have large openings. The rule is if you can see light and an exit, you can carefully go in. So, we also got to do a few tunnels and holes that were fun. Chandelier Cave has a large entrance and within it four chambers you can raise up, remove your regulator and breathe air, so we non-cave divers are allowed to pop in and get treated to a glimpse of the underwater cave world. It was really cool, but my favorite part was leaving the cave. We shut off our lights and swam to the light of the entrance. It was enchanting.

image taken from https://fishnfins.com/images/dive-palau/Koror-Sites/chand-long.webp
The coral garden outside the cave is also home to a gorgeous, elusive tiny fish: the mandarin fish. It’s really hard to spot them, but thanks to our guide, I got to see two. Since I don’t take pics, I hovered and just enjoyed watching this little beauty dart in and out of the coral.
Pic taken from https://forthefishes.org/tankwatch/fish/blue-green-mandarinfish/
I could go on for days telling you more about the dives, but I’m sure you’re tired of seeing links to other people’s pictures. Plus, I’ve got to get back to time with my own school of amazing offspring while breathing in another remarkably beautiful part of our world.
I’ll end this post with some more pics taken by either a crew member, a fellow diver, or Susan. As you can tell, we had a great time above and below water. Thank you Palau for all your gems.















































